Work on your soul by:
Reading.. even if its just fantasy books, graphic novels and current events. Sign up for The Skimm. Nothing is better than an educated voter. Social responsibility is realllllllll and it affects all of us.
Weed gross out of your life. I just saw my step mom reblog some inspirational facebook shit about ” you can’t expect to lead a positive life if you surround yourself with negative people”. Drama is contagious. Most relationships you idolize are poisonous because no healthy relationship is fueled from idolization. Cut ties. Less is more when it comes to people you allow in.
Get a fucking hobby. Or get like 5 hobbies for a week each. DO SOMETHING THAT ISN’T INSPIRED BY SOMETHING YOU THINK A BOY WOULD LIKE OR SOMETHING YOUR BOYFRIEND IS ALREADY DOING. It irritates the shit out of me when girls do this. Be your own human. What do you like? you don’t know? cool.. me either sometimes.. so try a bunch of shit until you find one. you dont have to be good to start something.. fuck, you actually never have to be good at it you just have to like doing it.
treat your body right. eat for fuel and not for comfort. oil that machine.
all of these breed a “be all u can be” attitude and once your mind is there you confidence will blossom. It doesnt happen overnight. Talk to people, ask questions and push yourself out of your comfort zone. And once you figure it out, shut up about it. Don’t brag just relax in your wealth of knowledge. Become a full, well rounded human before you try to attach someone else on to your ride through life.
Its tight because when you stop operating within the realm of attracting mates.. you actually start to attract them.